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Spencer Li

Turning 35: Thank You For All the Birthday Wishes!

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As I slowly edge towards my mid-life crisis (just joking!), I want to thank all my friends and family who have always been there for me as my pillar of support.

BIRTHDAY WISHES!

With no opportunities to travel this year, i have had more time to reflect on life, and here are some of my musings:

  • Finding a life partner has been the top of my priority, and though it hasn’t been easy or successful, I have learnt quite a lot in a short period of time. In this area, it is useful to talk to people who have successful relationships and to learn from them.
  • Many people tend to neglect sleep, but optimising it can improve all areas of your life, by boosting your energy, mood, etc. Aim for a consistent sleep cycle of 6-10 hours, depending on each individual. Invest in stuff to make your sleep better, such as mattresses, pillows, diffuser, blackout curtains, white noise, etc.
  • Meditate daily to improve concentration, clear your mind, enhance your focus, and enjoy many more health benefits. Start with 5 minutes a day, and slowly increase to 1 hour a day. If it feels like a waste of time, think of it as sharpening your axe instead of using a blunt axe to chop a tree.
  • Do not neglect your health as well. The main areas of focus are physical exercise, stamina (cardio), flexibility, and most importantly, nutrition/diet. Aim to eat healthy, and take note of caloric surplus/deficit if you want to increase/decrease your weight.
  • Learn useful skills, and take up fun/creative hobbies, for example driving, cooking, dancing, learning a new language, coding, etc.
  • Read widely. The more I read, the more I realise I do not know. Stay humble, stay hungry. This year, I have focused my readings on relationships, philosophy, and psychology. for less serious reads, I also enjoy science fiction.
    • Philosophy helps one ponder the meaning of existence, and sheds some light on the fabric of reality. Most people blindly accept what has been spoon-fed to them, and do not stop to think for themselves and question whether it is indeed true.
    • Psychology helps one understand other people, and more importantly oneself.
  • When people near the end of their life, the thing they cherish most are relationships. These should be cultivated throughout your life. Learn to listen and help others, and be present. There are many levels to relationships – learn to connect with people on a deeper level.
  • The only way to be content is to embrace gratitude. Instead of wanting more, learn to give and contribute. Life is not a competition, there is no prize for struggling to reach the top in everything. The journey matters more.

Once again, thanks for all the birthday treats and gifts, and I will compile them below:

 

 

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Habits vs Goals – Which is More Effective in Getting Results?

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Habits vs Goals

After reading countless self-help books and websites, the idea of goal-setting seems to be staple advice for anyone looking to get their life in shape.

Hence, every year, either at the end of the calendar year, (or at any significant point in the year such as one’s birthday), it became standard practice to set goals, or resolutions, specifying what one hoped to achieve by the next goal-setting date in 365 days.

But really, how effective is this?

Depending on one’s willpower, one might be able to stay motivated and work on the goal for 1-3 months, but soon after life gets in the way, and the resolution quickly gets forgotten. Hence quite often people end up recycling their new year resolutions.

So is there a better way? (spoiler alert: yes, there is.)

The problem with goal setting is that it shows you what the end-goal is like, but it misses out the exact steps to get you to that goal.

For example, one of the common goal setting methodologies is SMART, which stands for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, and Time-based. While these help you define the parameters of the goal, it does not show you how to get there.

That’s where the importance of habits come in.

“A habit is a routine of behavior that is repeated regularly and tends to occur subconsciously.” – Wikipedia

While goals can help you think of the desired end result, habits can show you the path to get those results.

 

Real-life Application

For example, if you are like me, and enjoy doing extreme planning and goal-setting, the sequence will look like this:

Lifetime goal > Goal for next year > Actionables > Daily habits

Lifetime goal: being physically healthy and keeping in shape

Goal for next year: hitting a desirable weight of xx kg

Actionables: eating healthy, exercising more

Daily habits: only eat healthy snacks, eat 3 servings of fruits/veg, exercise 30 mins a day, etc

 

As you might have realised, the main purpose of the goal is to allow you to formulate the daily habits which you should be doing if you want the desired end results.

This means that on a day-to-day basis, you should just be focusing on executing the daily habits. It might seem slow at first, but be patient and wait for the compounding effect to kick in.

 

If you only focus on the goals without clear steps, or try to take huge steps, it will require a lot of willpower every single day to chase the goals. This is why most people give up after a few months, due to a gradual attrition of willpower.

However, if you work on building habits, they do not require much willpower to maintain once they become ingrained, so in a sense it is like working towards your goals on auto-pilot, which greatly increases your chances of success.

 

How to Get Started?

The easiest way is to start with something small, and stick with it, and as the action becomes a habit, slowly build on it. Each level can last anywhere from 1-2 weeks, depending on how long it takes you to ingrain the habit, and automatically do it daily without missing any days in between.

Level 1: Do 5 push-ups a day

Level 2: Do 10 push-ups and 10 sit-ups

Level 3: Complete level 2 and go for a 10 min run

Level 4: Exercise for 30 mins

Level 5: Continue building as you see fit

 

Don’t try to start working on too many goals at a time, it is best to pick the top 1-2 goals, and work on ingraining the habits for them, before moving on to the next goals.

 

The Power of Compounding

In investing we often talk about the power of the compounding effect, and this concept can also be applied to our personal growth.

The Power of Compounding

If we improve our lives by 1% daily,  the compounded returns is 3800% per year.

So, have you set your goals and habits for the year ahead?

 

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If you are excited to get more life hacks, also check out: “Beyond Financial Freedom: An Unofficial Guide to Living Your Best Life”

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