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Spencer Li

What are Peak Experiences, and How to Get More of it in Your Life?

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Peak Experiences and Flow States: What They Are and How to Have More of Them

Last updated: 3 July 2026 · By Spencer Li, CFTe


A peak experience is an intense moment of joy, awe, or deep connection that leaves you feeling fully present, fulfilled, and changed by it. A flow state (total absorption in a challenging activity) is the kind of peak experience you can deliberately set out to create. The term comes from psychologist Abraham Maslow, who studied self-actualized people and noticed they reported these “sudden, dramatic, and emotionally charged” moments of insight and unity far more often than most. You cannot force a peak experience to happen on command. What you can do is build the conditions for it: pick an activity you find genuinely engaging, protect uninterrupted time for it, stretch yourself slightly past your comfort zone, stay present instead of drifting, and practise gratitude for what you already have. Do that consistently, and these moments arrive more often.

Here is what peak experiences are, where the idea came from, and the five practices that reliably invite more of them into an ordinary week.

What is a peak experience?

A peak experience is a moment of intense psychological or emotional joy, awe, or wonder, sometimes carrying a feeling of transcendence or unity with the world. People who have one often describe it as life-changing, and it can quietly shift how they see themselves and everything around them.

The common thread is total immersion. During a peak experience you are completely absorbed in what you are doing, fully present, often working at the edge of your ability. There is usually a sense of challenge and growth woven through it, not just pleasure.

Peak experiences do not come from one fixed source. Some people find them through art or creative work. Others find them in sport or hard physical effort. Others reach them through spiritual or religious practice, or through a moment of real connection with another person. The trigger varies. The feeling, that immersive, meaningful, slightly-larger-than-yourself quality, does not.

Peak experience or flow state: are they the same thing?

People use the two terms interchangeably, and they overlap heavily, but they are not identical. Here is the simplest way I draw the line.

Peak experienceFlow state
Coined byAbraham Maslow (1960s)Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (later)
Core feelingAwe, transcendence, unityEffortless, total absorption in a task
TriggerOften spontaneous (a sunrise, a birth, a realisation)Deliberate (a challenging activity matched to your skill)
DurationCan be a single fleeting momentCan last as long as the activity does
Can you plan it?Rarely on demandYes, by designing the conditions

In plain terms: every flow state is a kind of peak experience, but not every peak experience is flow. The sunrise that stops you in your tracks is a peak experience you did not engineer. The hour you lose inside a hard, absorbing piece of work is flow, and flow is the version you can actually set out to create. That distinction matters, because it means peak moments are not purely a matter of luck.

Where did the idea of peak experiences come from?

The concept comes from Abraham Maslow, the humanistic psychologist best known for the hierarchy of needs. Studying psychological and spiritual growth, Maslow noticed that the healthiest, most self-actualized people reported moments of profound insight and understanding that seemed to transform them.

He called these peak experiences and described them as “sudden, dramatic, and emotionally charged.” He believed they could give a person a sense of unity, transcendence, and connection to something larger than themselves.

Maslow’s work shaped a lot of what came after it. His ideas were picked up and developed in positive psychology, education, and management research. The specifics of his theory have drawn fair criticism over the years, but the core observation has held up: these intense, meaningful moments are real, and they matter for how we grow.

What are the benefits of peak experiences?

The reported benefits are consistent across the research and across ordinary lived experience:

  • Increased creativity and problem-solving
  • Greater happiness and well-being
  • Sharper focus and productivity
  • Faster personal and professional growth
  • A stronger sense of connection to other people and to the world

None of that is mystical. When you are fully absorbed and slightly stretched, you tend to produce better work, feel better doing it, and grow from it. Peak experiences are where a lot of that compounding quietly happens.

What are some examples of peak experiences?

They look different for everyone, but here are the common shapes:

  • A moment of spiritual connection, such as during meditation or a ceremony
  • A moment of deep emotional connection, such as falling in love or a real conversation with a close friend
  • A moment of personal accomplishment, such as finishing a marathon or hitting a long-term goal
  • A moment of awe, such as standing in front of a natural wonder
  • A moment of intense emotion, such as the birth of a child or the loss of someone you love
  • A moment of creative inspiration, such as writing a poem or composing music
  • A moment of intense focus on a hard task, such as deep work or meditation
  • A moment of intense physical sensation, such as a dance performance or skydiving
  • A moment of connection with nature, such as hiking in the mountains or swimming in the open sea
  • A moment of self-discovery, such as during a retreat or in therapy
  • A moment of sudden understanding, such as when a hard problem finally clicks

These are deeply personal and they vary from person to person. What they share is intensity and meaning. You tend to remember them for a long time.

How can I have more peak experiences?

You cannot summon a peak experience on demand. You can, though, build the conditions that make them far more likely. Five practices do most of the work.

Identify what genuinely absorbs you. Pay attention to the activities that pull you into flow and leave you fulfilled, then deliberately make more room for them. Most people already know what these are. They just do not protect them.

Protect distraction-free time for it. Block specific time, find a quiet space, and remove the interruptions. Flow needs an uninterrupted runway. It rarely survives a buzzing phone.

Seek out challenge that stretches you. Peak experiences live at the edge of your ability, where the task is hard enough to demand full attention but not so hard that you give up. Learn a new skill, take on something harder than last time, or pick up a problem just beyond your current reach.

Stay present. Practise mindfulness, whether that is following your breath or simply paying full attention to your senses. Presence is the gateway. A wandering mind never drops into flow.

Practise gratitude. Regularly reflect on and appreciate what you already have, and tell the people who support your growth that you see it. Gratitude deepens the fulfilment these moments bring and strengthens your connection to others.

One honest caveat. Peak experiences are not always pleasant in the moment. They often involve hard work, struggle, and even failure. The marathon hurts. The hard problem resists you for hours. But that is usually the point. The struggle is what makes the breakthrough land, and it is through the difficulty that we tend to grow and learn the most.

There is a practical bridge here to the discipline I write about elsewhere. The same conditions that produce flow, a clear challenge, full presence, and no distractions, are also the conditions under which people make their best decisions under pressure. A tool can hand you information instantly. It cannot hand you the present, focused state of mind in which you actually use that information well. That part stays yours.

Concluding thoughts

Peak experiences, and flow states in particular, are intense moments of joy, awe, and absorption that can bring a real sense of transcendence and growth. You will not control when every one arrives. But by finding the activities that absorb you, protecting time for them, seeking out challenge, staying present, and practising gratitude, you can weave far more of them into an ordinary life, and benefit from how they change you.

Now that you know what peak experiences are and how to invite more of them, is this something you want to make a deliberate part of your life? Let me know in the comments below.

If you enjoyed this, you will probably like Beyond Financial Freedom: An Unofficial Guide to Living Your Best Life, which carries the same theme further.

FAQ

What is the difference between a peak experience and a flow state?
A peak experience is any intense moment of joy, awe, or connection, and it often arrives spontaneously. A flow state is total absorption in a challenging activity matched to your skill, and it is the kind of peak experience you can deliberately set up. Every flow state is a peak experience; not every peak experience is flow.

Who came up with the concept of peak experiences?
Psychologist Abraham Maslow introduced it as part of his theory of self-actualization, describing peak experiences as “sudden, dramatic, and emotionally charged” moments of insight and unity.

Can you make a peak experience happen on purpose?
Not on command. You can, however, build the conditions that make one far more likely: choose a genuinely absorbing activity, protect uninterrupted time, stretch yourself slightly, stay present, and practise gratitude.

What are the benefits of having more peak experiences?
They are linked to greater creativity and problem-solving, more happiness and well-being, sharper focus, faster personal growth, and a stronger sense of connection to others and the world.

Are peak experiences always pleasant?
No. They often involve hard work, struggle, and even failure. The effort is usually what makes the breakthrough meaningful, and it is through the difficulty that we tend to grow the most.


About the author. Spencer Li is the founder of Synapse Trading and a Certified Financial Technician (CFTe) with 15 years of trading across stocks, forex, crypto, commodities, and bonds. His trade log is public, 404 trades, losses left in. He teaches low-risk swing trading in 15 minutes a day, one system for any market, and writes occasionally on the parts of a good life that have nothing to do with markets.

Reflection piece, not financial advice. Synapse Trading is not licensed by MAS to advise on investment products. Trading carries risk of loss; past performance is not indicative of future results.


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Personal Checklist: The Top 5 Habits of Singaporean Self-Made Millionaires

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Just last week, I came across this interesting article, talking about some of the prominent millionaires in Singapore, and how they created their wealth.

vulcan-postSource: Vulcan Post

As I read it through, I couldn’t help but think about what they did to make, keep, and grow their wealth. Sure, some of them inherited their wealth, but it takes a different kind of education in order to preserve and grow the inherited wealth.

It is definitely not chance that these people have achieved phenomenal success. There were, in fact, common patterns of behaviour that keep them successful.

The difference lies in just 5 actions they take consistently:

1. THEY CREATE MULTIPLE INCOME STREAMS

The average person lives from paycheck to paycheck, while the average wealthy person receives cash from various sources, so that even if one source were to be temporarily cut off, they can still enjoy the same standard of living they currently have. Here are just some of the commonly known income streams that they have:

Earned Income: working for money

Interest Earned: earning money by lending it

Dividend Income: earning money by share ownership

Profit: Selling something you make or own

Capital Gains: Selling something higher than what you bought it for

Rental Incomes: Money gotten from owning real estate

Royalty Incomes: Money from selling intellectual property or franchise systems

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Having multiple streams of income is like having many waterfalls flowing into the same ocean. The more streams you have, the more reliable the flow.

Which do you currently have? The average person struggles to survive because he only has one stream. Personally, I like trading and portfolio management. The great thing about portfolio management is that you can enjoy interest earned, dividend income, and capital gains.

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2. THEY TREASURE EVERY SECOND OF THEIR TIME

Let’s be honest with ourselves; how many hours a day do you do things that do not contribute to your financial success? Most people would rather procrastinate or spend time on enjoyment rather than on what really matters.

I found this really interesting image of how most people spend their time in a year:

4Source: The Visual Communication Guy

It’s amazing; out of 365 days a year, 183.7 days are spent on media! If we were honest with ourselves, perhaps what we need is to rethink the way we live. Perhaps if we all take some time away from Media and reallocate it to self-improvement, learning, investing, and growing as a person, we could be living a very different life indeed.

How would your life look if you re-arranged your priorities?

Robert Kiyosaki once made a quip about what he noticed of rich and poor dads; he said that poor dad would sit on the couch and watch TV every night, while rich dad would review his investments and upgrade his skills every night. Poor dad would spend the weekends wasting time, while rich dad would build a business during the weekends.

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Many of you would know that I read more than 200 books before I embarked on my trading journey. Even now, I make it a point to read at least 3 books a week, because I feel that it is important to never stop learning and upgrading oneself. Here are some key pointers:

  • Don’t waste time. Find out what you need to do, and do it.
  • Re-prioritize. Find out which areas of your life you can do away with, and cut them out quickly.
  • Learn. Just because you have graduated doesn’t mean you should stop learning. Successful people get where they are because they have an attitude of lifelong-learning.


3. HAVING A MENTOR MAKES A BIG DIFFERENCE

Mentors are looking for people who are humble, hungry, and hard-pressed for success. No matter where you are in your career or life, it helps to have successful people to reach out to and learn from. They’ll be able to quickly point you in the right direction if you are going off-track.

When I started my trading career at a professional fund, I had wonderful, experienced mentors to guide me in the right direction. I quickly picked up on what worked and what did not. I learnt their habits, their lifestyle, and the difficulties that they went through to get where they were.

Where can you look for mentors if you have no one at the moment? This is what many people ask me from time to time.

  • Build connections: Networks are not built overnight. As you expand your social circle to include successful people, you will start to find people who could potentially guide you to where you want to go.
  • Be inquisitive: People will only want to mentor someone who has the attitude for success. While at the beginning you might lack aptitude, the right mentality and motivation would attract the right people to you.
  • Keep learning: As you learn more, you discover you will have the vocabulary to connect with people. With greater proficiency, you would be able to speak at the same level as industry practitioners, asking smart questions, being able to understand jargon, and make an impression.


4. THEY VISUALIZE THEIR DREAMS IN DETAIL

Goals without dreams are dead; they become mere tasks rather than the exciting outcome that you hope for. It helps to have an idea of what you want; most people want to be wealthy but don’t know what it would look like.

What does a wealthy life look like for you? For YOU personally?

For some, it could mean having to work only 2-3 days a week. Financial goals differ from person to person, and it’s not just the monetary goal, but also the lifestyle goal. For me, I knew I wanted to have the luxury of making passive income even when I am travelling. This may not be everyone’s goal.

“How much money do you want to make exactly, and what would that lifestyle look like exactly?”

Many people want to lose weight. Losing weight isn’t a definite enough goal; Losing 12 kg by the end of 6 months is a definite goal. Many people fail to achieve their goals because they don’t even define their goals!

It’s also important to visualize yourself doing what you hope to be doing. Having a lot of money is pointless if all you are going to do is sit aroud with the cash; it is accomplishing the goals you have, those bucket lists, that make life worthwhile.

So what is it for you?

Grab a piece of paper and start getting your hands dirty. It doesn’t matter if you are old or young, experienced or inadequate; what matters is a willing heart and dilligent hands, and of course, a big enough dream that will knock you off your sofa and get you started.

  • Be specific about your goals. General goals generally don’t work. Specific goals help you to move toward exactly what you want.
  • Keep track of your progress. You never know if you are on the right path if you don’t take stock regularly. Even better, get a mentor to help you evaluate where you are.
  • Focus on the dream with its details. Keep reminding yourself of where you eventually want to be. Otherwise, you’ll just lose steam and burn out, bum around, and end up not getting where you were heading toward.


5. THEY DO NOT GIVE UP OR QUIT

If you’ve got your foot into the investing arena, you would be familiar with financial losses. It is at this point where your mettle is truly tested; is this what you want? Are you willing to sit through heartache and tough lessons to get where you want? Is the life you left behind really worth going back to? Do you still believe in the dream you have?

When that business fails, would you stand up again and start all over? When you family doubts you and the pressure to provide hits you, will you continue to stand by your dream? People want the glory without the trials and training. Just take a look at the infographic below that I found:

33Source: Anna Vital (Founders & Founders)

I also came across this interesting quote, which I thought was very useful in clarifying what we really value. Millionaires invest their money and make investing a priority, while poor people spend their money first and make spending a priority.

5Source: Gecko and Fly

Always, always seek to make investing your primary objective. Invest your time, invest your money, invest in your team if you are running a business. Invest, invest and invest.

Is investing your primary objective, or is spending your primary objective? Would you be willing to delay gratification, in order to enjoy a lot more in the future, far more than you can ever imagine?

  • Do not quit. Ensure that you have made a commitment. Tell your friends, and engage people to keep you on this path.
  • Invest your money, your time, and in your team. Investing is what multiplies your returns in the long-run. Keep at it!
  • Prioritize learning, rather than earning. It pays to be more proficient at what you want to do. When you are starting out, make learning a priority, and the profits will come eventually.

Don’t give up on your dreams!

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Feel free to share this with people you know who are working hard toward their dreams, and striving to build their first pot of Gold. And with these 5 actionable steps, you’ll be one step closer to your first million! 😀

Bonus: Download free ebook: The 7 Best-Kept Secrets of Professional Traders

RESEARCH SOURCES & REFERENCES

vulcanpost.com/593788/in-forbes-2016-asias-richest-families-list-we-see-some-prominent-singaporean-names
businessinsider.sg/habits-of-self-made-millionaires-2016-3/#rJDS8hCPPhHm5qpK.97
fastcompany.com/3052770/how-to-be-a-success-at-everything/7-habits-of-self-made-millionaires
allbusiness.com/slideshow/9-smart-habits-of-real-millionaire-entrepreneurs-16769866-1.html
huffingtonpost.com/timothy-sykes/top-30-millionaire-habits_b_8260134.html

 

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If you are excited to get more life hacks, also check out: “Beyond Financial Freedom: An Unofficial Guide to Living Your Best Life”

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