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What are Peak Experiences, and How to Get More of it in Your Life?

Have you ever had a moment in your life where you were completely immersed in an activity, feeling a sense of awe and wonder, and experiencing a deep sense of connection and fulfillment?

These intense moments of positive emotion and enlightenment are what we refer to as peak experiences, or “flow states.”

These moments can be transformative and help us feel more connected to the world around us.

In this blog post, we will explore what peak experiences are, their origins, and the benefits they offer.

We will also look at some examples of peak experiences and discuss how to incorporate them into your daily life.

What are Peak Experiences?

Peak experiences, also known as “peak moments” or “flow states,” are moments of intense psychological or emotional joy, awe, or wonder that can be accompanied by a feeling of transcendence or unity with the universe.

These experiences are often described as life-changing and may have a profound impact on an individual’s sense of self and their perception of the world around them.

During a peak experience, an individual may feel completely immersed and involved in an activity, leading to a sense of personal growth and fulfillment.

This sense of immersion is often characterized by a feeling of being completely present and focused in the moment, and may involve a sense of challenge and growth as well.

Peak experiences may be triggered by a variety of different activities and experiences, and can take many different forms.

Some people may experience peak moments through artistic or creative endeavors, while others may find them through physical activities or sports.

Still others may experience peak moments through spiritual or religious practices, or through moments of deep connection with others.

Regardless of the specific form they take, peak experiences are often described as transformative and may have a lasting impact on an individual’s sense of self and their perception of the world.

They may also contribute to a sense of purpose and meaning, and can be an important source of fulfillment and happiness.

Origins of Peak Experiences

The concept of peak experiences was first introduced by psychiatrist and humanistic psychologist Abraham Maslow in his theory of self-actualization.

Maslow was interested in understanding the psychological and spiritual growth of individuals, and he believed that peak experiences were moments of profound insight and understanding that had the potential to bring about significant personal transformation.

He described peak experiences as “sudden, dramatic, and emotionally charged,” and believed that they could provide individuals with a sense of unity, transcendence, and connection to a higher power or purpose.

Maslow’s theory of self-actualization and peak experiences has had a significant influence on the field of psychology and the study of human motivation and growth.

His ideas have been further developed and refined by other researchers and practitioners, and the concept of peak experiences has become an important topic of study in fields such as positive psychology, education, and management.

Despite some criticism and debate over the specifics of Maslow’s theory, peak experiences continue to be recognized as valuable and transformative experiences that can contribute to personal and spiritual development.

Benefits of Peak Experiences

There are many potential benefits to having peak experiences, including:

Increased creativity and problem-solving abilities
Greater feelings of happiness and well-being
Improved focus and productivity
Enhanced personal and professional growth
A sense of connection to others and the world around you

Examples of Peak Experiences

Peak experiences are intense moments of positive emotion, connection, and enlightenment that can be transformative and help individuals feel more connected to the world around them.

Some examples of peak experiences may include:

A moment of profound spiritual connection, such as during a religious ceremony or during a moment of meditation
A moment of intense emotional connection with another person, such as falling in love or having a deep conversation with a close friend or during an act of kindness
A moment of personal accomplishment, such as finishing a marathon or achieving a long-term goal
A moment of awe and wonder, such as seeing a natural wonder or experiencing something new and exciting
A moment of intense emotion, such as the birth of a child or the death of a loved one
A moment of artistic or creative inspiration, such as composing music or writing a poem
A moment of intense physical connection, such as during a dance performance or a sports event
A moment of intense focus and concentration, such as during meditation or a difficult task
A moment of intense physical sensation, such as bungee jumping or skydiving
A moment of connection with nature, such as hiking in the mountains or swimming in the ocean
A moment of intense self-discovery, such as during a retreat or therapy session
A moment of profound understanding or realization, such as when a complex problem is finally solved or a difficult concept is finally grasped

These moments can be deeply personal and may vary from person to person. They are often described as intense, life-changing, and meaningful.

How to Have More Peak Experiences

If you are looking to have more peak experiences in your life, try the following:

Identify activities that you find deeply engaging and enjoyable: Pay attention to what kinds of activities bring you a sense of flow and fulfillment, and make an effort to prioritize and incorporate these activities into your life.
Set aside dedicated time to focus on these activities without distractions: This might mean setting aside specific blocks of time to engage in your chosen activity, or finding a quiet and distraction-free environment to work in.
Seek out new challenges and experiences that stretch your abilities and encourage personal growth: To incorporate this element into your daily life, try seeking out new experiences and activities that challenge you and help you to develop new skills and knowledge. This could involve learning a new hobby or sport, taking on new responsibilities at work, or tackling a difficult problem or project.
Practice mindfulness and stay present in the moment: This might involve practicing mindfulness techniques, such as focusing on your breath or paying attention to your senses, to help you stay present and focused.
Foster a sense of gratitude and appreciation for the experiences and opportunities you have: This helps to enhance your sense of fulfillment and satisfaction, and can also contribute to a greater sense of connection to others and the world around you. Make an effort to regularly reflect on and appreciate the experiences and opportunities you have, and express gratitude to those around you who support and enable your growth and development.

It’s also important to note that peak experiences are not always easy or enjoyable in the moment.

They may involve hard work, struggle, and even failure. However, it is through these challenges that we often grow and learn the most.

Concluding Thoughts

Peak experiences, or “flow states,” are intense moments of joy, awe, and wonder that can bring about a feeling of transcendence and personal growth.

By identifying and engaging in activities that bring you fulfillment, setting aside dedicated time to focus on these activities, seeking out new challenges, practicing mindfulness, and fostering gratitude, you can incorporate peak experiences into your daily life and benefit from their transformative effects.

Now that I have shared what peak experiences are about, and the practical ways you can apply it in your life, do you think this is something you will want to make a part of your life?

Let me know in the comments below.

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Personal Checklist: The Top 5 Habits of Singaporean Self-Made Millionaires

Living Your Best Life

Just last week, I came across this interesting article, talking about some of the prominent millionaires in Singapore, and how they created their wealth.

Source: Vulcan Post

As I read it through, I couldn’t help but think about what they did to make, keep, and grow their wealth. Sure, some of them inherited their wealth, but it takes a different kind of education in order to preserve and grow the inherited wealth.

It is definitely not chance that these people have achieved phenomenal success. There were, in fact, common patterns of behaviour that keep them successful.

The difference lies in just 5 actions they take consistently:

1. THEY CREATE MULTIPLE INCOME STREAMS

The average person lives from paycheck to paycheck, while the average wealthy person receives cash from various sources, so that even if one source were to be temporarily cut off, they can still enjoy the same standard of living they currently have. Here are just some of the commonly known income streams that they have:

Earned Income: working for money

Interest Earned: earning money by lending it

Dividend Income: earning money by share ownership

Profit: Selling something you make or own

Capital Gains: Selling something higher than what you bought it for

Rental Incomes: Money gotten from owning real estate

Royalty Incomes: Money from selling intellectual property or franchise systems

Having multiple streams of income is like having many waterfalls flowing into the same ocean. The more streams you have, the more reliable the flow.

Which do you currently have? The average person struggles to survive because he only has one stream. Personally, I like trading and portfolio management. The great thing about portfolio management is that you can enjoy interest earned, dividend income, and capital gains.

2. THEY TREASURE EVERY SECOND OF THEIR TIME

Let’s be honest with ourselves; how many hours a day do you do things that do not contribute to your financial success? Most people would rather procrastinate or spend time on enjoyment rather than on what really matters.

I found this really interesting image of how most people spend their time in a year:

Source: The Visual Communication Guy

It’s amazing; out of 365 days a year, 183.7 days are spent on media! If we were honest with ourselves, perhaps what we need is to rethink the way we live. Perhaps if we all take some time away from Media and reallocate it to self-improvement, learning, investing, and growing as a person, we could be living a very different life indeed.

How would your life look if you re-arranged your priorities?

Robert Kiyosaki once made a quip about what he noticed of rich and poor dads; he said that poor dad would sit on the couch and watch TV every night, while rich dad would review his investments and upgrade his skills every night. Poor dad would spend the weekends wasting time, while rich dad would build a business during the weekends.

Many of you would know that I read more than 200 books before I embarked on my trading journey. Even now, I make it a point to read at least 3 books a week, because I feel that it is important to never stop learning and upgrading oneself. Here are some key pointers:

Don’t waste time. Find out what you need to do, and do it.
Re-prioritize. Find out which areas of your life you can do away with, and cut them out quickly.
Learn. Just because you have graduated doesn’t mean you should stop learning. Successful people get where they are because they have an attitude of lifelong-learning.

3. HAVING A MENTOR MAKES A BIG DIFFERENCE

Mentors are looking for people who are humble, hungry, and hard-pressed for success. No matter where you are in your career or life, it helps to have successful people to reach out to and learn from. They’ll be able to quickly point you in the right direction if you are going off-track.

When I started my trading career at a professional fund, I had wonderful, experienced mentors to guide me in the right direction. I quickly picked up on what worked and what did not. I learnt their habits, their lifestyle, and the difficulties that they went through to get where they were.

Where can you look for mentors if you have no one at the moment? This is what many people ask me from time to time.

Build connections: Networks are not built overnight. As you expand your social circle to include successful people, you will start to find people who could potentially guide you to where you want to go.
Be inquisitive: People will only want to mentor someone who has the attitude for success. While at the beginning you might lack aptitude, the right mentality and motivation would attract the right people to you.
Keep learning: As you learn more, you discover you will have the vocabulary to connect with people. With greater proficiency, you would be able to speak at the same level as industry practitioners, asking smart questions, being able to understand jargon, and make an impression.

4. THEY VISUALIZE THEIR DREAMS IN DETAIL

Goals without dreams are dead; they become mere tasks rather than the exciting outcome that you hope for. It helps to have an idea of what you want; most people want to be wealthy but don’t know what it would look like.

What does a wealthy life look like for you? For YOU personally?

For some, it could mean having to work only 2-3 days a week. Financial goals differ from person to person, and it’s not just the monetary goal, but also the lifestyle goal. For me, I knew I wanted to have the luxury of making passive income even when I am travelling. This may not be everyone’s goal.

“How much money do you want to make exactly, and what would that lifestyle look like exactly?”

Many people want to lose weight. Losing weight isn’t a definite enough goal; Losing 12 kg by the end of 6 months is a definite goal. Many people fail to achieve their goals because they don’t even define their goals!

It’s also important to visualize yourself doing what you hope to be doing. Having a lot of money is pointless if all you are going to do is sit aroud with the cash; it is accomplishing the goals you have, those bucket lists, that make life worthwhile.

So what is it for you?

Grab a piece of paper and start getting your hands dirty. It doesn’t matter if you are old or young, experienced or inadequate; what matters is a willing heart and dilligent hands, and of course, a big enough dream that will knock you off your sofa and get you started.

Be specific about your goals. General goals generally don’t work. Specific goals help you to move toward exactly what you want.
Keep track of your progress. You never know if you are on the right path if you don’t take stock regularly. Even better, get a mentor to help you evaluate where you are.
Focus on the dream with its details. Keep reminding yourself of where you eventually want to be. Otherwise, you’ll just lose steam and burn out, bum around, and end up not getting where you were heading toward.

5. THEY DO NOT GIVE UP OR QUIT

If you’ve got your foot into the investing arena, you would be familiar with financial losses. It is at this point where your mettle is truly tested; is this what you want? Are you willing to sit through heartache and tough lessons to get where you want? Is the life you left behind really worth going back to? Do you still believe in the dream you have?

When that business fails, would you stand up again and start all over? When you family doubts you and the pressure to provide hits you, will you continue to stand by your dream? People want the glory without the trials and training. Just take a look at the infographic below that I found:

Source: Anna Vital (Founders & Founders)

I also came across this interesting quote, which I thought was very useful in clarifying what we really value. Millionaires invest their money and make investing a priority, while poor people spend their money first and make spending a priority.

Source: Gecko and Fly

Always, always seek to make investing your primary objective. Invest your time, invest your money, invest in your team if you are running a business. Invest, invest and invest.

Is investing your primary objective, or is spending your primary objective? Would you be willing to delay gratification, in order to enjoy a lot more in the future, far more than you can ever imagine?

Do not quit. Ensure that you have made a commitment. Tell your friends, and engage people to keep you on this path.
Invest your money, your time, and in your team. Investing is what multiplies your returns in the long-run. Keep at it!
Prioritize learning, rather than earning. It pays to be more proficient at what you want to do. When you are starting out, make learning a priority, and the profits will come eventually.

Don’t give up on your dreams!

Feel free to share this with people you know who are working hard toward their dreams, and striving to build their first pot of Gold. And with these 5 actionable steps, you’ll be one step closer to your first million! 😀

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RESEARCH SOURCES & REFERENCES

vulcanpost.com/593788/in-forbes-2016-asias-richest-families-list-we-see-some-prominent-singaporean-names
businessinsider.sg/habits-of-self-made-millionaires-2016-3/#rJDS8hCPPhHm5qpK.97
fastcompany.com/3052770/how-to-be-a-success-at-everything/7-habits-of-self-made-millionaires
allbusiness.com/slideshow/9-smart-habits-of-real-millionaire-entrepreneurs-16769866-1.html
huffingtonpost.com/timothy-sykes/top-30-millionaire-habits_b_8260134.html